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go go/// GOOOOOOOOO NOWWWWWWWWW... :x it's growing by the day.. the nex thing u know, u'll be seeing the doctor because she has given birth!!
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ok then, i'll talk things over with my girl and see how it goes. thanx guys, appreciate the help....
Tiew, some of u guys.. stop bombing the fella ady la. All main syok only taking the advantage to scold him , farking understand the situation he's in and stop making him feel worse ady la.. jeez.
bling_bling, just consult a doctor la best.. Er, i cant really say where but do it soon la ok? I think since it's kinda long after the sex already u might have to do an abortion ady la.. aih. Are u religious? ... anyway nvm about that.
Just plz remember to use the rubber next time, or dont do it la. Good luck.
bling_bling, just consult a doctor la best.. Er, i cant really say where but do it soon la ok? I think since it's kinda long after the sex already u might have to do an abortion ady la.. aih. Are u religious? ... anyway nvm about that.
Just plz remember to use the rubber next time, or dont do it la. Good luck.
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yup yup.. the most expensive experience! in a positive way.. may be that's a beginning of his new life.... road to success.... ;)
expensive but to some people its worth it!
i bet u'll stay away from sex for a pretty long time after this thing settle~
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jeremy said:
no......i'll juz stock up on lotsa condoms. durex is gonna have a big sales hike this month.
bling_bling; You are 20. I don't consider you a kid. Just not financially self sufficient maybe. Possibly lacking of a bit maturity. But, technically you are an adult. Adults have to learn to face the music when they do something wrong.
In this case, you and your gf need to talk things through between yourselves first and decide what is the best course of action. Know what you can do and what are the consequences. But I can tell you the first course of action.
1) Go get a pregnancy test kit. If negative read 2). If positive read 3).
2) Relax you might have escaped the bullet. Don't do the same mistake again. But to be sure, try the test a week or 2 later again, just to be sure. If positive then read 3).
3) Congratulations. Now you have to go bring your partner to a Obs/Gyn for consultation. This is to confirm. Now;
i) If the both of you decide to have an abortion, you can tell the doctor your situation and he'll mostly help you. Remember what you are doing here. You are hurting your partner's body and you are taking an innocent life. Remember this.
ii) Return and consult your parents, the both of you. Despite you fears of getting a smackdown from them, they are you parents and they should at the very least be informed. They may or may not help you. But if you feel helpless by yourselves, it may be better to get help or guidance.
iii) You can talk to help groups. There are many. They would probably be more equipped to give you good advice.
The general things you got to think about are the well being of your partner, because for all your fears and anxiety, imagine how it is for her. She's got to go through more than you do regardless of what decisions you guys make. You owe her big time. Also think about the well being or future of your child (if indeed she is pregnant). Could you possibly give your baby and good upbringing? Money is just a part of it. Could you be a good father? Could she be a good mother? Could you both be able to live with each other and the baby?
At the end of the day, life is about making decisions. Most of them tough. Now you've got to do what's best for all parties, not just yourself. You've already made a wrong move, so now's your chance to make a right one.
In this case, you and your gf need to talk things through between yourselves first and decide what is the best course of action. Know what you can do and what are the consequences. But I can tell you the first course of action.
1) Go get a pregnancy test kit. If negative read 2). If positive read 3).
2) Relax you might have escaped the bullet. Don't do the same mistake again. But to be sure, try the test a week or 2 later again, just to be sure. If positive then read 3).
3) Congratulations. Now you have to go bring your partner to a Obs/Gyn for consultation. This is to confirm. Now;
i) If the both of you decide to have an abortion, you can tell the doctor your situation and he'll mostly help you. Remember what you are doing here. You are hurting your partner's body and you are taking an innocent life. Remember this.
ii) Return and consult your parents, the both of you. Despite you fears of getting a smackdown from them, they are you parents and they should at the very least be informed. They may or may not help you. But if you feel helpless by yourselves, it may be better to get help or guidance.
iii) You can talk to help groups. There are many. They would probably be more equipped to give you good advice.
The general things you got to think about are the well being of your partner, because for all your fears and anxiety, imagine how it is for her. She's got to go through more than you do regardless of what decisions you guys make. You owe her big time. Also think about the well being or future of your child (if indeed she is pregnant). Could you possibly give your baby and good upbringing? Money is just a part of it. Could you be a good father? Could she be a good mother? Could you both be able to live with each other and the baby?
At the end of the day, life is about making decisions. Most of them tough. Now you've got to do what's best for all parties, not just yourself. You've already made a wrong move, so now's your chance to make a right one.
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do ur gf want to keep that baby? what about u?
if want to keep.. good for u guys lah.....
if dun want go abortion it will cost depend on how old is ur baby..
note:- abortion is so pain full same like giving birth.. kesian ur gf
good luck to u.
if want to keep.. good for u guys lah.....
if dun want go abortion it will cost depend on how old is ur baby..
note:- abortion is so pain full same like giving birth.. kesian ur gf
good luck to u.
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it's only been less than a month, so the feutus hasn't taken human form yet, so how is the doc gonna terminate it?
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Silver i totally agree wit u in the making the right move rather making another mistake.....money can be earn thru hard work tat couldnt be tat diffcult is just u r hardworking or lazy.......then responsibility being a father is the most important to bring up a child.....u dun wan yr child to grow up as a rapist, robber, theft, muderer, gambler etc etc all the negative stuff...rite???.........so u must be more mature n stand firm in yr life.....face it like a man ok........dun make another wrong move u will suffer in the future......trust me when u coem to older age......
Good luck bro............
Good luck bro............
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the problem is i'm still too young and wild to settle down. plus i dun luv my girl enuff to marry her yet, so giving birth to the baby is a big no no coz both of us aren't ready for parenthood.
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the best way is to discuss with your parents 1st.... at least they can give you the best advice although u will get fire like hell. but is your own mistakes just take it be responsible since you can make you own decission! let them give you the best advice. this involved with human life my fren...
kiddo....that's your opinion or both ur opinions regarding parenthood?
It's not the physical pain that hurts much for the girl.....but it's the mental health that's at stake.
U go and do a research; sometimes it's not about health problem that a lady can't concieve; but it's their mental state that's affecting it.
Anyway, at the end of day; it's still your decision....
We're only here to give advice and obviously from a lot of opinions; u know that we don't encourage abortion unless it's neccesary.
Good luck to u!
Dun jump to any conclusion yet until u bring ur girl for a chek up....
Good luck again!
It's not the physical pain that hurts much for the girl.....but it's the mental health that's at stake.
U go and do a research; sometimes it's not about health problem that a lady can't concieve; but it's their mental state that's affecting it.
Anyway, at the end of day; it's still your decision....
We're only here to give advice and obviously from a lot of opinions; u know that we don't encourage abortion unless it's neccesary.
Good luck to u!
Dun jump to any conclusion yet until u bring ur girl for a chek up....
Good luck again!
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