for GALS :bikinigal said:
Talkin bout present n gifts...c'mon la...wat can u guys buy...
b00n said:alright....the girl speaks!
but seriously; I still can't understand point 2......this is what constitute to my breakups...
doesn't girl understand that quarrel is a sign of affections? It shows that you care when something or some decision is not right and u/her voiced it out. Because different view on the subjects; quarrel are bound to be. Sometimes ppl are so single minded that everything they say or do would always be correct no matter wat other ppl views are.
But the interesting part is the make out session after the quarrel is over whereby you/she saw the logic behind the quarreling and at last noticed the senses behind it.
b00n said:alright....the girl speaks!
but seriously; I still can't understand point 2......this is what constitute to my breakups...
doesn't girl understand that quarrel is a sign of affections? It shows that you care when something or some decision is not right and u/her voiced it out. Because different view on the subjects; quarrel are bound to be. Sometimes ppl are so single minded that everything they say or do would always be correct no matter wat other ppl views are.
But the interesting part is the make out session after the quarrel is over whereby you/she saw the logic behind the quarreling and at last noticed the senses behind it.
bikinigal said:4)if a girl who always expect you to pay for all expenses when going out together and expecting you to spend alot of effort in the gifts to her during the festivals...but in another hand you find that she just simply buy something without putting in any effort to surprise you.....does this girl really likes you?
c'mon guys....think~!!!
IF GALS DONT LET U PAY DURING UR DATES:
u'll say the gal don give u face...
IF GALS N U GO DUTCH DURING UR DATES :
aiyo...u'll embarrass urself la....
IF GALS LET U PAY DURING UR DATES :
u will post in zth n say she's materialistic la...$$ face la...this la..dat la..apala~!!!
bikinigal said:Talkin bout present n gifts...c'mon la...wat can u guys buy...
GALS :
1. jewelries
2. bags
3.make ups
4.hairclips...
5. clothes
6. books
ets etc..
GUYS :
1. wallet
2. belt
3. lighter
4. pen
5. eemm...wat more???
b00n said:the issue that's over and over and over and over again would usually involves money, life securities, life plannings, commitments and futures................
these are the sensitive issues that most couples had, and usually are the main reason behind point 2 raised by links.
Loves hurts because of the argument behind these issues, but there's still loves.
God, i think I just understood point 2!......Just haven't figure out how to overcome these sensitive issues.
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Most of the issues you've highlighted fall under the category of "security", which is why it's important for a man to have drive, ambition and direction in life. When a women sees these 3 traits in you, no worries, no arguments.
9W2SW said:my 2sens worth.......
Also BG, you ask wht else, my gf...........gave me a set of defi meters for my b'day recently.......but she forgot that there is a controller together as well.....so kena go buy the controller myself this weekend.......
b00n said:BG, these are simple example of details (hearts involved) and surprise gifts from a dedicated GF..... guess you should learn.....
haha
bikinigal said:i totally understand this..
try ask my ex-bf..he stil got the whole lot of things i gave him when we were together...even til now..
i'm a good artist myself......i can draw and make crafts well...i can even sing well..
gave him a tape (recorded our love songs-specially sung by me...) , i guess dat's da best i've gave him apart from our hand-made photoalbums, frames, deco, my handmade plaster dolls..
mm...who said gift from gals are not from their heart?:embaressed_smile: