Third party in relationship

[Duke Red]

satria, apa period

if she wants u to knws, she will let u knw.

"period" as in full stop ler.

 

[Duke Red]

crappy,
Duke Red is asking you to kill the uncle. hehehe He's just putting it in a nice way. hehehe

No mate, get someone else to do it:regular_smile:

I'm not saying that people with huge age gaps can't be happy together. I'm just saying that from the way it looks, she's in it for the money because at 53, he can't be all that physically appealing. As I also said, I could be wrong.

 

[invisibleghost]

"period" as in full stop ler.

ok, learnt something new today

 

[invisibleghost]

No mate, get someone else to do it:regular_smile:

I'm not saying that people with huge age gaps can't be happy together. I'm just saying that from the way it looks, she's in it for the money because at 53, he can't be all that physically appealing. As I also said, I could be wrong.

mature girls need security

 

[Duke Red]

I agree but I know a few people in their 30's who can provide that.

 

[invisibleghost]

security, easy, jz lock her at home, heheheeh

anyway, loving some1 is so diff. if we have no more chance, i rather forget everything

 

[Duke Red]

Yeah it's not easy to forget. I always thought it's better to replace memories than to erase them as it's almost impossible to do the latter on a permanent basis. It's been almost 2 months and I still can't forget my ex but life goes on. All we can do is try not to think about it and keep ourselves occupied.

 

[invisibleghost]

duke, wat happened lar?

 

[satria_95]

invisibleghost,
Dukey had a bad experience with one of the 100 girls which he had been together with. So he's looking for the 101th gal to replace the memories. Erm... maybe this time, he can try the cross scissor scorpion claw snake slither sex position and then he will have fresh memories again. hehehe

Dukey,
Joking ar... aiya... see my avatar also you know la. hahaha

 

[keong_GSR]

tracking her it's not a good idea,i think? no more freedom...btw,thanks for ur suggestion bro,really appreciate it...:X-:

 

[keong_GSR]

maybe it's my own fault since i told her that i really truly madly deeply love her...now she may think that got some1 really crazy in love with her then can fools around... last time she's d 1 who tracking me but from d past month,no call no sms,i'll be d 1 who start sms or call her 1st! damn malu lar...:embaressed_smile: i talked to her last night that i'll try to take a break n bring her to makan angin,she just laugh at me? man,that really make me mad for a few 2nds... n she later show me that d hamsap uncle bought a new uniform for her... damn be tahan but still calm down... she's now having 2 lines but i pretend dunno only...she afraid that i might check her call or sms later,so she delete it 1 by 1 infront of me,damn it! my exhaust temperature nearly go to d peak liao but calm as usual...i went to her house without telling her mar n she yet to delete d sms...she's not that type of gal for d past...if got guys sms her,she will let me know it. last time her parents dun let her simply follow others guys out or away from home for a few days if without me company... now her parents also so so...
well,maybe my time is limit liao... really sad when i type tis but lucky i still got u guys to help me...

leave her? i really cant bro... she's my 1st n i hope she will be d last also...unless she tell me then i've no choice liao... :sad_smile: :sad_smile: :sad_smile: :cry_smile: :cry_smile: :cry_smile:

 

[satria_95]

keong,
Can I be blardy honest with you? But be ready for some hard words if you let me be honest with you.

 

[keong_GSR]

keong,
Can I be blardy honest with you?

yup...

 

[keong_GSR]

keong,
Can I be blardy honest with you? But be ready for some hard words if you let me be honest with you.

u r welcome bro... i'm alreay suffering...i've nothing to lose liao...

 

[andy_lka]

Keong ar keong again,

why so cham ar?

after reading at ur story slowly i feels tat u r damn cham 1 la!

how come ur gal become so WILD aldY??

from previous so innocent to now, so ??> _ _ _ _ _

u name it lar, i oso dunno, i mean she shouldnt treatd u like dat,

tats bad,......... dun always DIE in front of her, u un wat i mean, dun ever let she knows tat u will die coz of her,

pretend to be strong,

but when opportunity comes, thats the SHOW time!

Show it how much u luv her, ~~ u un???

if still not un, let me know,....

i un ur situation.........

 

[satria_95]

keong,
Just leave her and stop complaining. So what if she's your first gf?
She being your first doesn't mean you'll have to suffer.
She being your first gf doesn't mean you'll never ever in your whole life find another girl.
She being your first gf doesn't mean she has your whole heart.
She being your first gf doesn't mean she controls your life.
She being your first gf doesn't mean that you can't recover from a broken heart.
She being your first gf doesn't mean that should just continue this farked up relationship.
She being your first gf doesn't mean that you can tell her how to live her life.
She being your first gf doesn't mean you can tell her what to do and what not to do.
She being your first gf doesn't mean a lot of things other than just a first gf.
Think about it dude. Live up to having those things between your legs. Better you hurt now till you recover, then go through this "I wonder what she's doing now with that uncle" bullshit. What's the point if you're going to fuck your own mental and heart up just for a bitch who wants to be a slut with a bastard who's married to a witch and acting like a fuck.
Seriously, if you don't want to step out of that relationship, ALL the ZTH-ians also won't be able to help you. You've got to decide to...

1) stay with that bitch and continue to suffer
or
2) Leave that bitch with a clear cut message and recover yourself.

If you choose 1, it'll be just a matter of time before we stop caring and supporting you. Why so is because no matter how much advice we give you, it'll be the same advice and since you don't want to free yourself, it's pointless for us to care.

If you choose 2, we'll still continue to support you, drag you out for TT and some talk shit sing piss, etc. and help you recover back. Cry if you need to after you break up. Crying helps relieve the pain. Trust me. I cry a lot of times and it helps. The thing is that you're sure to recover and be stronger after that. And if you did decide to leave her, just leave her. No need to act strong or weak or whatever shit just to show her. F U C K I T. Live your own life. If you're weak, then fall and get up and be strong again. When you're stronger, your mental will be stronger. Later in time, another girl will come. Look at me. Fat fuck also still can get girls, nice one too. Some more, I always use bad words and I'm childish and playful. The thing is, I treat the girl nice and make her feel comforted and cared for. But that's just about what I do. Gals has asked me stuff like, "What if I fall for another guy" or "what if bla bla bla"... those bad stuff that she does while with me. I just tell her, "I'll just leave. Not because I don't love or care for you. But because you've already made a decision and I'll just respect it and go". Then, they understood what I meant and tell me, "no la, I'm not that type". Well, just live longer and see if they're really that type or not la. hahaha

Sorry for being outwardly too direct but I just feel that it's not worthy for you to suffer like that. That's all of my crappy talk. You can laugh now. haha

 

[K_Takuya]

i think the gurl is too proud or herself... you want her.. and the other guy also want her.. maybe shes forgetting where she was before.. i dunt think its pure love she have towards the new guy (although she think she is).. it is more to "enjoy life" as i can see shes getting what she want.. im not saying you cant get what she want, but the new guy blurred her eyes with money etc... the guy old already... maybe after a few years... she will be left alone... maybe im wrong but i think know she kinda isolate herself for her other gurlfriends.. which have "normal" bf... am i right? does she showoff her bf to her friends? couples going out in a large group? bring her bf to yumcha with her friends in one table?

if not.... you know what im trying to say...

 

[keong_GSR]

my zerotohundred frens,

thankyou so much for u guys supporting,i know what i need to do now... really thanks!

 

[satria_95]

keong,
You know what to do now ar? Later you come back and tell us that you still together with her. hahaha Yes, the way I say it is like I want you to break up... simply because....

I WANT YOU TO BREAK UP.
hehehe loud and clear. hehe

 

[munpeng]

It is very often that a guy chooses which girl, but very seldom that a girl chooses which guy. Come to think of it, when a guy chooses a girl, he thinks she's wonderful in every aspect.

In another way, why guys wouldn't try to be as wonderful as possible, so that girls would approach you first instead? Then, that guy can choose which girl he likes the most.

My point is, if you really want to win a girl's heart, you can try to understand the girl's mind, as in what is she looking for in a guy? If you could understand her well, you would know what you can do to improve yourself to the next level, and attract her first, before making any moves later? If you know what you lack, you can always improve, which then makes you a confident man, definitely.

When girls are attracted to a man driving luxurious cars, then we would know she's secured with a guy with financial stability. When a guy is much younger, he would definitely have the advantage again, if he works hard and buy a new car, or even a house? It takes a lot of time to earn money, but that's for the future.