Got problem with my girlfriend.. Need HELP...

[rodneyk]

based on all of ur advice... i started to understand what women really needs... now i feel more peace at heart.. and now i'm starting understand her decision and i'm wiling to give her the space that she needs... coz all this while not knowing that i'm actually a selfish person... now i know.. if u love someone really bad.. u have to start doing it by yourself.. coz we are men.. and we have to control ourselves first.. then we can concetrate on someone else's life... for what i know is she still love me.. but she needs time to heal her wound... but i will not let her do it by herself... i will try to help as long as it will not pressure her... and maybe this way she can be okay alot more easier... this is what i learned this few days... from all u guys.. so thanx again.. come go yam char.. on me...

hehehe
*winks*
take care dude
:)

 

[BlackHD]

based on all of ur advice... i started to understand what women really needs... now i feel more peace at heart.. and now i'm starting understand her decision and i'm wiling to give her the space that she needs... coz all this while not knowing that i'm actually a selfish person... now i know.. if u love someone really bad.. u have to start doing it by yourself.. coz we are men.. and we have to control ourselves first.. then we can concetrate on someone else's life... for what i know is she still love me.. but she needs time to heal her wound... but i will not let her do it by herself... i will try to help as long as it will not pressure her... and maybe this way she can be okay alot more easier... this is what i learned this few days... from all u guys.. so thanx again.. come go yam char.. on me...

that's more like it. i didn't mean to hurt you from previous posting. my main objective is to make you think on your own knowing what a girl wants, not after reading all feedbacks from assumptions.

now your mind are back to perfect condition. congrats.

life is yours, so you need to find the lost bone that fits you.

 

[BaBY^MonO]

here the story... i have a girlfriend of 4 years.... and now shes breaking up with me... she said that WE have a BIG PROBLEM.. and that problem cant be resolved... so for ur info the BIG PROBLEM is.. for 4 years we have been arguing about stupid things... like why u dont call? why u ignore me...? why u talk like that..? why u talk like this.. and all those nonsense bullshit la.... and also when were are arguing.. things will easily heat up very fast... in the end we will talk like we are enemies... saying things that normally enemies will say to each other... BUT and i say BUT if we are happy.. we are the happiest couple in this world.... we can talk... we can understand each other.... and all those happy.. flowery.. i-love-u-u-love-me stuff la.... so let just say.. we have a love and hate relationship...



so i get back to the arguing issue... usually when we fight.. and always its gonna be a big one... in the end she will say things like "i dont want u anymore..." "so we are now finish.. no more me and u..." so i will say.. "dont la.. say things like that... small thing maa" and "come la.. we can talk this mess out" and i will pujuk her la after that... coz i'm scared of losing her... and also ive said to her dont ever said that kind of thing again la... coz we love each other and its not good for the relationship la.... so 4 years have passed by... and we just had a big argument 2 weeks back... and that time she said she had enough... and she gonna leave me for real... i've been trying to get back to her.. but all she can say is.. okay la.. but as a friend... FRIEND?? i said cmon la... don la like that... we can be okay... but she said.. "no... this is the end... and that’s it.. no more argument.. no more stupid fights" but still i disagree with her.... coz i dont want to lose her.. she's the love of my life... so for this two weeks... i've been thinking bout her more everyday...(not that i never do).. trying to solve this mess... and get back to her.... so i tried to call her.. have a discussion with her... be nice to her (not that i never nice to her) MORE!!... but the answer was the same.. FRIENDS... and she said that "dont give urself hope that we can be together"... coz she said it is hard to decide.... and maybe it will not gonna happen.... so i feel someone take out my heart and throw it in the 'tong sampah'... my heart ache... and now she ignoring me pulak.... she suddenly turn out to be this different person that doesnt care what i said or do to her.... and now she start seeing her new friends... enjoying herself.... being happy.. going out and clubbing with her new frens...(some member from her auto club forum not zth la... some car makers that have its own huge enthusiasts and its better to not mention the name...) like nothing had ever happen... while me here feel like the worlds is goin to end… and i'm telling u guys she is very different person now.. and sometimes i even feel that i'm talkin to someone else... and because of that now i feel that shes seeing someone else... coz it’s to easy for her to forget bout our relationship… damn easy… maybe it just my assumption la.. maybe she's not seeing anyone... but maybe she is... u will never know…



so now i'm askin u guys some advice about:-

1. what should i do to make her come back to me?

2. is it worth it.. after all that we've been through?

3. and how can i forget her and maybe can i treat her as a fren? coz it hurts me when i see her with someone else...



so to all u sifus2 who's major in love and relationship.. pls help me.. this is my last resort...

me also just break with my gf....we have been together for 4 years already.....we even live together....but wat to do...sometime must trust fate also....me that day nearly jump down from building because of that @!$$^&**%%$.....but me is the only son in family....so i think twice again...if i have brother,for sure i will jump from that building because im not strong enough to face my life without that bitch....but now everthing seems to be fine already...but just my advice to you...whatever thing that happen in ur life dun take stupid decission like me....stand up and face it...we are guy ma...that wat my mum told me....anyway this word is for you TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER (in mandarin)


cheers

 

[rodneyk]

me also just break with my gf....we have been together for 4 years already.....we even live together....but wat to do...sometime must trust fate also....me that day nearly jump down from building because of that @!$$^&**%%$.....but me is the only son in family....so i think twice again...if i have brother,for sure i will jump from that building because im not strong enough to face my life without that bitch....but now everthing seems to be fine already...but just my advice to you...whatever thing that happen in ur life dun take stupid decission like me....stand up and face it...we are guy ma...that wat my mum told me....anyway this word is for you TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER (in mandarin)


cheers

wah dun jump dun jump
over is over liao k?

 

[SnooPDoGGY]

dont jump maaa...

if u jump probably u die... (or seriously injured whole life)
think abt it...
die or injured like hell...
u cant have sex n e more man...
we r man... we need sex...
so dont kill urself...
make love dont jus just simply die w no cause...
peace out Gee

 

[TypicalGuy]

me also just break with my gf....we have been together for 4 years already.....we even live together....but wat to do...sometime must trust fate also....me that day nearly jump down from building because of that @!$$^&**%%$.....but me is the only son in family....so i think twice again...if i have brother,for sure i will jump from that building because im not strong enough to face my life without that bitch....but now everthing seems to be fine already...but just my advice to you...whatever thing that happen in ur life dun take stupid decission like me....stand up and face it...we are guy ma...that wat my mum told me....anyway this word is for you TOMORROW WILL BE BETTER (in mandarin)


cheers

if wanan die..i also wanna die with u

:(

 

[lostdesigner]

haiyah.. dont la say like that... ur life is the most precious thing that god have given to u.. i know u are playing onli.. but dont say like that lorr....

 

[ambayah]

Dont la say die die, not good.

Dont jump ok guys!

 

[jasonchan]

got problem with gf just break up la and find new one...like that also need to ask around..

 

[huakenny]

girls r everyway lo actually.......juz if being throw by gf...then got to find out wats d problem....if u hv no problem then ok lo....if got then got to think think wat to do.....