Third party in relationship

[Fatality]

boon

so what's the point trying then if we know its gonna fail?

better remain as it is right? yes i admit, no one is perfect

 

[b00n]

chances that u might make it the way u want to be there is also there.

What was meant here is to say that 90% things is unavoidable (what done is done) 10% is how you treat the situation thus another chance given.
example:
A waiter spill a cup of coffee over you. (Thats destined towards you which you can't change).
So now, the point is the 10%....what are you going to do about it?
You could
a) Scold the blardy foolish waiter...
b) Just let it be...
c) Scold and go back to change...
d) Let it be and go back home to change...

All this chances a-d is up to you. That's what I meant by 10% chances in life.
Btw, this teachings can be passed on to those who like to complain about shitty things that happened to them and all they do is just sit down and whine...

okie, i'm not that smart to come out with this theory. I just read it from somewhere; forgot where already....

 

[Fatality]

oh man.. this sucks.. im not that good in stuff like these..

the question above my answer is D. No use scold that waiter over a cup of coffee.. go home change and go back for another coffee.. *cafe latte in starbucks~!

as u know every human in this world only live once.. im sure all also wants to achive their goals.. so do i.. just seems immpossible at times..

 

[b00n]

Nike: Just Do it!
Addidas: Impossible is nothing!

 

[Fatality]

AhFat: Kenot do it! =`(


boon

Maison open black label mou?

 

[PocketRocket]

are you man enuf to take risks or a pussy like andrea?

maison~!!! come...i wanna club~

 

[tamz18]

=.=......
simply simply say,,,....

 

[Fatality]

Andrea no need say la.. coward to face the truth wan.. but but.. susah la bro.. this few days talking to u and u should know le.. there's always a risk in what ever we do..

 

[PocketRocket]

then why u still spamming here? "to know and not to do...is still not yet known" - Roger Hamilton

 

[Fatality]

dun spam in zth spam where wor?

basket put those type of quote.. tau la kawan..

 

[b00n]

my say: just live your life!

 

[PocketRocket]

i got alot more....

 

[alantan]

alan,

mind to share it here??

i had a best friend since 4 years ago..we met 4 years ago :regular_smile:

after i had my lisence 3 years ago...i always pick her up..send her to anyway she needs to go...go college la...go shopping la..go supermarket la..go job interview and all~we talked about everything that we can relate to each other...my problems, her problems...etc etc~

6 months ago, i send her to work almost everyday for 3 months..thats because she was doing her intership...so since then, i was enjoying eveything i do thats because i'm start to like her more than usual~

so realising her birthday was near , i bought ourself a trip to Penang(airasia, thats because she never takes a plane before) and bought her a decent diamond neckleces which cost me almost rm1k...suprised her and we spent beautiful time and lastly proposed to her(not married la,just asked her to be my gf) while coming back from the plane 30k feet above land.

well, she didn;t accept me right away la of cos...she was scared ma...so i said..no problem la...just hold onto the diamond and wear it when you're ready~

so thign went fairly optimistic for the next 4 months....i felt we bacame very much closer...i buy her gifts almost every week....shoes , sweets,choco's and stuff like that~...made her breakfast too...and be there whenever she needed me~

it was good and everything was so positive....then she went to australia with her family for holiday...i help her to prepare some of her things..send them to airport...and pick them on airport when they come back~....it was still good...

when she came back...planned to go for a dinner with her..she said ok..then the next few days, called her to double comfirmed the dinner date ..cos i had to make reservations....got no replies..called her later..

she say, don;t want la....don;t waste money la...this la and that la~

blablabla...she rejected me again that night when having the conversation....then she told me she was in a relation for less than a year, recently break up.........so i was very :angry_smile: and super :cry_smile: and then in my position i have no right to talk with her and i had to :mouth_closed: which make even :cry_smile: because she was one person i love so much that i could put her first in everything i do~

now we're not even close friends at all....seldom talk..avoding to talk(sked could end up with arguements and disagreements)

spend about rm1.3-1.4 k for her birthday itself..not too much honestly but a lot as that time i'm still studying only~

so i only know i'm a third party after 6 month of courtship~

life sucks

 

[Fatality]

*sigh.. follow what the uncle's advise le.. hahaha!!

 

[simonchangwaimun]

getting hot
uyes tamz its consider mistress
and no boon,i totally disagree
contrary to it.i told my xgf that 90% is wat in our hand..10% is the FATE fated by god..its out destiny...
thats wat i feel
tahts y i keep telling myself that i'm the master of my own life
and afat...love is blind AND STUPID
thus,i only love silvia...

 

[PocketRocket]

wah alan...i was in the same shoes as u....birthday i bought my ex diamond platinum la,oakleys la,huge ass teddy bear la...no worries...i was working in Westin for a minimum wage of RM1200...still could afford those cuz i din have financial commitments then...

 

[b00n]

i think i need to correct the sentences....
90% incidents had occured...left 10% to make decisions.

You were born; that's not fate....that's 90% facts....and 10% is how u decide u want to grow up to be.
Basically that is part of the 10% that your parents chose in their course of life.

We met with an accident; yes...maybe because we're not careful enough (which also is part of the 10% decision we made wrong). But "Met accident" is the facts that we can't alter anymore.....thus 10% is how we're going to live our life after the incident.

Man!.....I feel so old.....
*sigh*

 

[Fatality]

uncle boon

free tonite? come down sunway le.. i'll be there.. leaving office soon.. hehehe.. major project =p

 

[b00n]

Alan, so ur the reason why she's broken up?...
but ask yourself; do u love her?...
for god sakes; u dun even know she has a bf. It's not your fault.
So if u luve her, and she luvs u and she broke up because of you. Obviously u got to act as a man and be on her side.
Not avoiding her.......
She's avoiding you because she herself felt guilty. But than again, if you love her; you got to show that you don't really care about her past. That is if you really love her. Meaning to say you shouldn't care about her past anymore.
Everyone would have a certain black mark in their life; no point always looking back at the past and complains about it. Life is all about we look at the future and wanted it to be.

Man!.....I feel so old.....
*sigh*

 

[b00n]

fat...kenot.
*sniff.....
i wish I can. Visa tonight no approval...
wakakakaka