why would u care to revenge? do u think on behalf of your current gf? i mean, seeing own bf fighting, arguing or meeting up with x will not turn up to be good feel. and do you expect her to take it longer? be fair to her, she's a human with feelings too.
u want to overcome this, first u need to look and analyse the situation.
Why she put all blame on you?
- probably because she really miss you.
- probably you didn't handle it well when breaking off, that she can't take the fact that you open mouth earlier than she does (it's 90% cause of all similar case)
- her reaction after seeing you treating your current gf better than her in the past.
Why she open herself to accept guy that approach her and choose wild sex?
- It's to find the lost comfortable feeling she had when she's still with u in d past.
- To forget about the past.
- Hoping you'll feel guilty.
- Hoping to get more attention from you thus make u go back to her (out of pittiness) or make your current gf fade-up with you paying so much attention on her, whichever applicable.
From all her reaction, without realising it actually helps you a lot on following areas:
1) Choosing right friend
- Those who listen to her and believe what she say. do you think it's called "True friendship"?
- The one that still stay beside you after receiving so many cursing and blame, does she deserve to get all this shit? NO, but yet she is still happy living with you right? because she trust you. but you must also show her you're worth for the trust she'd given you. so how can you pay her back starting from now? u probably know the answer.
2) Learn to handle relationship wiser.
3) Remember the bad experience and take it as a lesson.
4) Realise the power of Mouth. same goes to your own, your mouth mustn't curse neither tell lie at all time, coz it will hurt someone without realising. An article i read not long ago says "Do not speak if your word doesn't mean anything"
5) and Body temptation. in this cheeky world, beauty rulez...
So as conclusion, you should...
- Ignore her and build your new life. If needed, change phone number. not to avoid but it's to make your gf feel you're not holding back, not giving her any chance to call anymore... means u're totally out from her bugging life.
- Be yourself.
- Learn to differentiate what's called pity, love, and care.
- Learn to say no in good way.
Sometimes love is not just about living together, having sex, hiding up things etc. it's about how much you wanted to live with a person and how much you wanted to comit yourself to take care of him/her for the rest of your life. In order not to break the relationship, u must look forward and give more concentration to the current one. let the past be history. and most important is, share all you have with your loved one. enjoy every single moment you got with him/her. and not forgeting, talk nicely in all situation.
If you keeps on thinking on the bad side and concern on her, you'll probably end up loosing your current beloved one.
It's time for you to learn some oldies and sing to your current one,
"Tell Laura I love Her...
Tell Laura I need Her...
Tell Laura not to cry...
My love for her... Will never die... "
sorry i damn pei now, doing programming stuff.
