Bro my words for you la...
"Imagine there is plant,it started to grew let say your ankle heigh.One day a storm came and destroy everything.The plant is still standing though but it had already partially broken(like limping dick la).Because you love the plant so much you decide to let it grow(yes it still can grow you think).So,the plant keep growing but it is not growing up.Time goes by and in the end your wish to let the plant grow had actually failed because the top of the plant got too heavy it crush down and destroy the whole plant.Get wat i mean??
You should get a scissor and cut it out when the plant is a limping dick.Therefore it can continue to grow up and healthy as long as it is still there.
Since you love the plant so much,getting a scissor and cut it off really gonna broke your heart BUT,you choose to let it grow up and healthy or let it grow until it crush itself..it is your decision.A grown up wont ask someone to tell what you should do this step 1,2,3,4,5. I gave my words to you,the decision is up to you.
cheers