Actually ive the same problem quite similarly with my Evo 4...
My problem improve very very much when i remove my BOV and direct connect to the air filter chamber...Now no BOV lol but at least engine tak mati when changing gear...hehe
Well,still hoping to find out what is the actual problem...
Im using stock ecu and what ecu r u using? MAP sensor type or A/F type? If you r not planning to upgrade to any standalone ecu at the moment then maybe u can add a HKS EIDS (can check it out at HKS website)...
Pls do share if you managed to find out the actual cause.
This is just my personal opinion and it will be more appropriate to refer to an experience mechanic.