firstly, pre-amp = anything between HU and AMP.
if I am not mistaken, EQ and parametric should fall in the same thing right? Which is Equalizer.
This one got 2 type, the 5, 7, 13 and etc band graphic equalizer. The other one is the 3, 4, 5, 7 and etc band parametric equalizer.
The difference is, the graphic one, normall the frequency is already set at certain point. Example = the EQ in winamp. The parametric one, you should be able to adjust the centre frequency. Some also has ability to adjust gain and Q factor. Example = the eq in Pioneer DEH 5750MP.
Now, if you have a HU with parametric eq capability, you might not need the parametric preamp. if your HU already come with LPF & HPF you might not need the e-crossover too.
Unless, you really really know what you want, you have the money to pay some one to tune it for you or you know how and you have the proper equipment to tune your system, you might not need a pre-amp at all....:)
hope this helps.