invisibleghost said:i am very curious abt these confidence thing. many ppl have told me but i jz dun get it. any1 care enough to explain about it?
Having confidence means you are secure with who you are and what you look like. Not all women end up with good looking men mind you. Take a look around, do you see more good looking men or women? Very often, men tend to overdo it with women in hope of impressing them. They try to hard and it's really obvious. Either that or they lack self esteem and appear really insecure with themselves. This is not to say you should be cocky but you should appear comfortable with who you are and show that you are not overawed by her or the occasion. The key is to act as though you have nothing to lose. It's different when you get into a relationship lah obviously.