Having confidence means you are secure with who you are and what you look like. Not all women end up with good looking men mind you. Take a look around, do you see more good looking men or women? Very often, men tend to overdo it with women in hope of impressing them. They try to hard and it's really obvious. Either that or they lack self esteem and appear really insecure with themselves. This is not to say you should be cocky but you should appear comfortable with who you are and show that you are not overawed by her or the occasion. The key is to act as though you have nothing to lose. It's different when you get into a relationship lah obviously.invisibleghost said:
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lol...special species...lol...it's actually easy to jst get a girl to b my gf now...jst tat...no "special" feel...together oso meaningless...the hardest thing now is...to find that "special" feel...wonder when wil i hav my next gf....if this mentality continues..any sifu here got any advice for me? all advices are very appreciated...civic_rs said:
-lonely kel-
hmm kelvin-----(very hard for me to call my own name hehehe)
the special feel very hard to find 1,
the feel will come if u saw a girl in the first sight
u will feel like ur flooting in the air,ur heart pumping very fast,
but (not to brake ur heart) its no use if u got the feel and the girl got no feel in u
its very hard to get where both got feel to each other
so just find a girl u like and develope a good strong relationship between each other
another lonely kel here
the special feel very hard to find 1,
the feel will come if u saw a girl in the first sight
u will feel like ur flooting in the air,ur heart pumping very fast,
but (not to brake ur heart) its no use if u got the feel and the girl got no feel in u
its very hard to get where both got feel to each other
so just find a girl u like and develope a good strong relationship between each other
another lonely kel here
damn hard get gf here means...leave malaysia go to japan......makesure u can speak simple japanese..............sure can score wan la....
this is my simple carimakan japanese word......sumi masen.....kirei des......
this is my simple carimakan japanese word......sumi masen.....kirei des......
kelvio... sometimes..it reli makes things hard when u hav tat special feel on someone... but tat someone odi belongs to another person..sigh...
being confidence does not mean u have to ACT tough....be as tough as u can doesn't mean anything...it can only hurt yourself..sometimes, gals like those who can express themselves well...those guys of expressions and brave enough to show their tears...hehe..like andy lau said, it's ok for a guy to cry~~hehehe..
but, gals' demand for confident guys are more into their attitude, their characters, their posture, gesture, physically...mentally as well~
confident in another word means, look good, feel good about themselves...
it's hard to find guy who look good and feel good about themselves, some of those might be in their best business suit but their best is in their khakis and cap....so, it's all about the feeling from the inside....
it's ALL about being yourself..and being TRUE to yourself...
(dont force yourself to do things dat u dont like or u cant do it...just because u wanna impress a gal...it's no difference than, being a 'geek' who tried so hard to get a gal's attention)
*my 2cents*(should be helpful enough for any guys with or wthout gf~!!)
but, gals' demand for confident guys are more into their attitude, their characters, their posture, gesture, physically...mentally as well~
confident in another word means, look good, feel good about themselves...
it's hard to find guy who look good and feel good about themselves, some of those might be in their best business suit but their best is in their khakis and cap....so, it's all about the feeling from the inside....
it's ALL about being yourself..and being TRUE to yourself...
(dont force yourself to do things dat u dont like or u cant do it...just because u wanna impress a gal...it's no difference than, being a 'geek' who tried so hard to get a gal's attention)
*my 2cents*(should be helpful enough for any guys with or wthout gf~!!)
feel good bout your "member" ... dont worry if bikingal thinks your member is small... as long as u have one.. and functioning.. be proud of it. hahahaha.
j/k.
j/k.
What BG said is true lo...
But sometimes I notice that when a girl really likes a guy... he doesn't want that girl. I asked a guy friend why??? He said ''Too easy la, no fun." WTF!!!
But sometimes I notice that when a girl really likes a guy... he doesn't want that girl. I asked a guy friend why??? He said ''Too easy la, no fun." WTF!!!
same can be said for girls lahhhh... assuming a girl and a guy go shopping for clothes...junsupra said:
from my experience, most guys already know what they want before looking for it. they take maybe 30 mins to find what they want, pay and leave. (of course nowadays, some guys have been injected with female genes and are known as metrosexual hehe. these dudes take longer).
girls on the other hand, have to cover the whole complex before consulting her friends which fits her better or looks better on her. if her friends say she looks fat in one, she will choose another. this process continues until her committee of friends come to an agreement. by that time, complex tutup.
what do you all reckon?:regular_smile:
i agree with everything that you've said. now you'll see some of the guys on here thinking they can get laid with angelina jolie! all confident liao!:regular_smile:bikinigal said:
decision making skills are also really important lah. i have friend who is really 'lalang' and it's annoying. "anywhere lah", "anything lah", "see how lah".
sorry but it's a common stereotype. so silence is acceptance then?:regular_smile:junsupra said:
I don't know... I don't shop much. Only for chinese new year or a special occassion. But can't compare shopping to relationshipy stuff mar.
BG - I also asked my girl friends, "I know you like him... so why you still treating him like that?" their reply was "If I give in too easily, he wont appreciate me."
-_-''
BG - I also asked my girl friends, "I know you like him... so why you still treating him like that?" their reply was "If I give in too easily, he wont appreciate me."
-_-''
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yea...agree...i had a few frens said the same thing too...
and when there's gals who jual mahal, guys will say, it's too tough...broke their own confidence....macam mana wanna succeed in courting business???haihz....
agree gals?
and when there's gals who jual mahal, guys will say, it's too tough...broke their own confidence....macam mana wanna succeed in courting business???haihz....
agree gals?
junsupra said:
hmm...BG...i guess ur main point is "be who we are...and no to act like someone else to impress a girl.."....and my view is...u do hav a point...coz for me..if the girl fall for the guy who act like someone else..she dun like the real him..but the fake him..no meaning oso if together...lalala...i dunno wut i m talkin bout
true also lor ''be ur self''
but im always my self ony lack the confidence ony lor hehe
hope theres nice girl dont look at guys confidence
but im always my self ony lack the confidence ony lor hehe
hope theres nice girl dont look at guys confidence
is this a new club for mens who are single? If it is.......i think i just made myself qualified to join here..... :sad_smile:
mm..confidence are not made up....
confidence is within urself...
try to look at things dat make u feel comfortable, make u feel confidence...
sometimes, small little things dat make u feel confidence can boost ur own confidence level...example like ....
probably u r confidence of ur 'education' about cars, u'll automatically feel comfortable when it comes to talk about cars, same applies when this can make u feel confidence...
so, no worry, the point is just b who u are and do things u r comfortable wit...u might not knw, a gal might be interested in u once they saw ur eyes sparkle with confidence when u talk about cars....probably u'll be in luck if u 'happened' to help a gal in distress when her car broke down...mm...u might not know...God knows~~dat's ur luck~~!!
confidence is within urself...
try to look at things dat make u feel comfortable, make u feel confidence...
sometimes, small little things dat make u feel confidence can boost ur own confidence level...example like ....
probably u r confidence of ur 'education' about cars, u'll automatically feel comfortable when it comes to talk about cars, same applies when this can make u feel confidence...
so, no worry, the point is just b who u are and do things u r comfortable wit...u might not knw, a gal might be interested in u once they saw ur eyes sparkle with confidence when u talk about cars....probably u'll be in luck if u 'happened' to help a gal in distress when her car broke down...mm...u might not know...God knows~~dat's ur luck~~!!
kelvio said:
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