being confidence does not mean u have to ACT tough....be as tough as u can doesn't mean anything...it can only hurt yourself..sometimes, gals like those who can express themselves well...those guys of expressions and brave enough to show their tears...hehe..like andy lau said, it's ok for a guy to cry~~hehehe..
but, gals' demand for confident guys are more into their attitude, their characters, their posture, gesture, physically...mentally as well~
confident in another word means, look good, feel good about themselves...
it's hard to find guy who look good and feel good about themselves, some of those might be in their best business suit but their best is in their khakis and cap....so, it's all about the feeling from the inside....
it's ALL about being yourself..and being TRUE to yourself...
(dont force yourself to do things dat u dont like or u cant do it...just because u wanna impress a gal...it's no difference than, being a 'geek' who tried so hard to get a gal's attention)
*my 2cents*(should be helpful enough for any guys with or wthout gf~!!)