Originally posted by EG8@Mar 6 2005, 15:50
Agree with you R.C. not everyone like that.
but somehow our society has changed a lot these days, and more and more people become materialistic.
Another day, i had a get together stuff with some ladies friends which i didnt met for quite some times. one of the ladies who knew my cousin ( which is pretty chun ) asking when shall my cousin get married, and i told her that she will be getting married at the end of this year.then keep asking what her future husband job is, what car is he driving, does he have landed property or not, etc etc.i told her that he is working in a factory as a supervisor, driving a decent car and dont have any house yet. then the friend of mine said " wow... okay, since she is pretty, i wonder why she didnt choose a better partner then which can afford her better" I told her that perhaps it is her destiny, so I dont think that by marrying a rich dude will make her happy.And then later she brag about how her current bf is a manager in one of the big co in malaysia, how comfort to be in the latest 5 series of his bf, how lucky she is to have a bf who can have a plush condo in bangsar, how lucky she is to have supplimentary gold card of his bf etc etc. I was quite annoyed and told her " in that case why dont u ask him to marry you." she just keep quite and said" well, i cant get married to him because he is married, and i dun think he is the One for me" . then i told her whats the meaning of a relationship if you dont get married to him and surprise... she said "well, life is once only, so, im still young ( she is 23 btw ) so live life to the extend loh"
wahlau... if everyone like this ... we might have a serious crisis in society then.again, im not generalizing that every urban women like this, just that many of them i encountered these days are like this.......................... :(