it really down to how u control ur throttle, since neo's throttle respond is very slow, so i tap it b4 i engage gear,when i engage, i can feel the urge to go dy.
as for auto, anticipate gear changes, since u drive it everyday, i believe u should know at which rpm it change gear by now. when its about to change gear, relax ur throttle a bit, after change gear oni press it. another thing is during idle, no need to put it to D la, increase wear on ur auto gb n increase heat n fc oni...
for all neo, we can see that after 1st 10,000km, fc will drop significantly. n ur lubricant plays a role here also, dnt go to those cheap dealer sc la, those ppl ciplak 1! go to mitiaradamansara or pj s13 or pj 227, those sc hv ethic n know how to fix things, not push here push there attitude