both evo 9 and golf can be daily car but when you say mods, it depends on what you want from the car.
if you plan to dump money into chasing high hp, then go for evo.
if you already have a daily car and want a weekend or fun car, whether its street or touge or occasional track days, go for evo.
no comments on fd2 as i'm not familiar with hondas.
my advice is to test drive all 3 cars, then see which car you like best before deciding because you are the one who is going to own the car and paying for it, maintenance, mods and all. :wavey: