dude. Ok let me break it down for you :
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This spring seat looks a bit low. Personally I think this a 1.6/1.8 absorber. The Wira SE one is special, the spring seat is slightly higher. That's why the original Wira SE spring is shorter and fatter than the normal springs. I'm specifically referring to the 1st and 2nd generation Wira SE. After that all the Wira SEs were just generic 1.6/1.8 absorbers and springs.
Waja absorbers (front) is the same as Satria GTI, Wira 1.6, Wira 1.8.. The spring seat is low and the front springs are tall and wide. Satria Neo ones fit in the Wira too but this will seriously jack up the height of your car if you choose to try.
Wira 1.3/1.5 absorbers (front) are slightly different, the spring is thinner and not as big as the 1.6/1.8 one.
The most unique is the Wira SE 1st batch and 2nd batch spring and absorber + spring. Personally I would not recommend buying used because of the age and I honestly doubt you'll be able to find it new.
Since you're using for city and occasional trips, get stock wira 1.6/1.8 spring + any brand 1.6/1.8 long stroke absorbers like Monroe, KYB, Sachs, etc Like what Parakey said this combination is actually quite comfortable with reasonable control. KYB is going to be the softest of the choices though, it's oil-based. Monroe sensatrac is gas so gonna be a bit harder. Sachs however is the 'stiffest' of the brands and some people swear by it. There's other options as well but it'll be up to you to go try it.
If you're looking for lowered looks and some performance then consider those short stroke absorbers like APM Performax ones and pair it with sports springs. APM Performax is a little bit low but it's pretty solid.
If you're looking for looks and coilovers on a budget then HWL is the way to go. Forget about hilo and go for hilosofthard. Hilo no matter what people say will be bumpy. HLSH is definitely better in terms of control, soft when you want it (to some extent) and hard when you want it.
If you're rich and has a huge budget, then a combination like Koni Yellow + Eibach sports springs is very good. It'll cost as much as a coilover but it will handle like a dream without being harsh like a coilover.
If you're really rich then go for custom made suspension like from PRS, RDS, Premium, Claws, Titan, etc.