Aiyo, go to oversea sure like that one lar. My friend went for few years and came back also 'seasoned' a lot. Almost everyday got people date for party and you know lar, after party, sure get overhauled. if drunk, then kena more 'shots' from different people per night. This is the western culture. That's why our 30 years old aunty still has better condition compare to those western 25 years old girl. I got another female friend don't know somehow kena vietnam rose somemore.