How would u Fee| |f one day u know tt ur Gf SLEPT wif ur BrOtheR/Fr|enD.. {-_-}..

[bikinigal]

very contradicting...but assuming such...
i'd advise u to just forget it..after all,it's past...
if u 'cant' c(as in when they were smoothing or playfully joking in front of u...) when they're together...just leave,it's better to hurt them by making them realise how open minded u r in ur previous relationship rather than make them realise they can easily make u jealous and brake ur heart....mend ur heart wit true frens,that stand up for u...all the while...
cheers!

Not to side step the topic but what if you found out that your ex is now with your friend. I know since it's about your ex which is now history, but can you still accept it that your fren made a move on your ex after you left. Assume that when you were with your ex, the fren had nothing to do with the break-up. Both separate issue.

 

[TypicalGuy]

just intro bitch to planta gang lar

we will sapu for u

 

[eterna22]

re_fc3s,

why not ? i wouldn't mind , as long as she is happy.

but i will find it uncomfortable if that is my close friend, because everywhere he go she will come along, and i dont really want to see her so often, so then me and the guy's friendship will drift apart, and that guy will hear story of me from her , and eventually he will avoid me.

a few reason ranging from i've seen her naked before and guys dont like sharing to , my past mistakes that he thinks im am a bad guy...

 

[re_fc3s]

Thanks eterna22 & bikinigal for the replly.

3 ppl (Guy A, Guy B and Gurl Z) where all fren. Guy A went out with Gurl Z for 1 year and things didn't work out after that. Both were matured enough to move on and just remain distance frens. 6 month later Guy B suddenly bumped into Gurl Z and some how there was chemistry after a few yam cha's. Now Guy B asked me if it's wrong to move further or just remain fren. He knows that he dug the hole himself saying he shouldn't have go yam cha alone with her... thinking it was just casual but without knowing both was slowly falling for each other. Gurl Z is also quite smitten but she is also bogged down by the thought that A might not be too happy eventhough he approves.

B asked for advise and if Z was around she would also ask the same.
What would you advise them?

Do u believe that your ex is offlimits to any of your fren or are you open enough if you are in A's shoes... just gathering so opinions...

 

[bikinigal]

if i'm A,
i'd rather not be 'informed' of wat happened...(meaning : would appreciate if Z din tell me wat happened btwn B and herself)...but if things really work out for both B & Z, i'll choose to either wish them good luck(since u say he's mature enough..) or...turn to Z and get her back...(if i still loves her...) :rolleyes:

if i'm B,
IF i knw bout Z's past with A...and IF i knw she stil care for A's feelings even if she have intention to be with me...and IF i wanna be with her so badly...dont think anything else...just take the move,be with her, appreciate her..love her...make her no chance of feeling bad for A's feelings... :cool:

if i'm Z,
learn to appreciate wat's past...if i cant let go of A,i might as well just keep another 6months to gather my feelings and of course,verify which is love and like...i might like B but i might stil in love wit A...so,i'd rather take time to think than to make mistake and ended up breaking up wit B after a few more months....and of course, get hurt again... :frown:

actually, i'm in such situation some time ago..but my choice?
i stayed single n focus on my job...till now...and fyi,i'm happy... :tongue: dat's da most important thing!

Thanks eterna22 & bikinigal for the replly.

3 ppl (Guy A, Guy B and Gurl Z) where all fren. Guy A went out with Gurl Z for 1 year and things didn't work out after that. Both were matured enough to move on and just remain distance frens. 6 month later Guy B suddenly bumped into Gurl Z and some how there was chemistry after a few yam cha's. Now Guy B asked me if it's wrong to move further or just remain fren. He knows that he dug the hole himself saying he shouldn't have go yam cha alone with her... thinking it was just casual but without knowing both was slowly falling for each other. Gurl Z is also quite smitten but she is also bogged down by the thought that A might not be too happy eventhough he approves.

B asked for advise and if Z was around she would also ask the same.
What would you advise them?

Do u believe that your ex is offlimits to any of your fren or are you open enough if you are in A's shoes... just gathering so opinions...

 

[SPEEDSPiRiT]

re_fc3s,

it's alright for the relationship to grow mah..
no harm and i think A will understand..
things didnt work out with A but work out with B is never expected but still acceptable mah...
go on! everyone in ZTH will fully support B :) and Z :)

 

[bikinigal]

i will support too...

re_fc3s,

it's alright for the relationship to grow mah..
no harm and i think A will understand..
things didnt work out with A but work out with B is never expected but still acceptable mah...
go on! everyone in ZTH will fully support B :) and Z :)

 

[re_fc3s]

i will support too...

I'm sure if B and Z reads this, they will be
heheheh

will get them to read it themselves.
Thanks guys... hahahaha.. love the part where "ZTH will fully support B and Z " hahhaahha