alantan...for those who remember my story also...it ended also and is i the one who ended it....first of all i called her and told her dun contact again coz during that time i am going to torn myself apart..i guess you guys understand that kinda feeling
So now is like..very very normal fren..i got over it liao...so now happy as always~~work work everyday
Alan and ckm..yeah eventhough it happen like that,maybe we are those that will wait,but pure waiting is not the solution also as you guys know,really will make ourself in a dilemma.Wanna wait or duwan...one part of yourself said wait another one telling you duwan to wait.For me,i choose to wait BUT live my life as usual and doesn't get affect much by her in the senses that,i am still open to everyone go for wat i wan but something like putting a reserve seat but still open for application.If there is another much more better candidate well of course gasak la,first come first serve basic wert..
Yeah alan..i feel that after that day i call her and told her dun call sms or watever mean of communication anymore,and that is on my birthday nite..Wohooo good bday present.From that day onwards really living a dilemma,like what you said,you realise it and you tend to run away and etc etc.Finally got myself clear and ready to go,wat so hard ???? You feel like waiting wait la then...ppl is giving you suggestion,we dun treat it as an order.Why in a dilemma because you yourself wants to wait,but what you heard from others POV told you that not to wait because not worth it rite? So you see,conflict. What i get for myself la is that...i doesn't feel waiting sucks or stupid,that is other ppl opinion or suggestion i will listen and think about it too BUT myself keep telling me not to give up.So now..like what i said,i still wait but keep everything cool, the matter between me and her can't affect me in my daily life nor would i feel very sad or very happy because of watever things that happen between me and her.Something like just keep ourself free and open...by doing that
1) you yourself still waiting which is what you want
2) you open up yourself to other stuff,think it in different way so watever happen wont affect your emotion in your daily life
3) continue look for chicks and if you found someone that you kinda like and things turn out well and you feel that the girl can replace "her" then you know wat to do lor...
4)Kalau tak ada? continue step 1,2,3 ^_^
live life to the fullest,everytime we heard of it.Dun got ourself in a F up situation just because of this.