just wanna voice some opinion:
"I don't disturb you, why u disturb me (I don't say/warn u, why u say/warn me"
If this one is refered to tap on shoulder cuz talking on the phone, then basically the young guy "chooses" to do so, and the uncle has NO RIGHT to say what he just said, unless he want to pick a fight, well..
"settle why not shake hand"
already give face settle with you, still want shake hand? its not a friendly settle at all, the uncle should known better just say "okay, settled? okay" and go back mind his own business.
silly boy was annoyed but he need to understand some older people dont have the privilege of younger generation(s) exposure & way of life.
dunno about any of you here's life, but i kind of live in a place, which since i'm a kid, there is not much "age factor" in who i respect or understand, and not much "idea" of parents or child. i treat my parents like friends, my nephew and niece as friends, people outside of all age range as friends. you treat me nice i treat you nice, you respect me i respect you, no such things as must respect elders, and i don't expect younger generation to respect me either if they find me not worthy to be respected.
hell, thats the environment i live in, but i will understand if people other than me think differently. and again, just my opinion lar, dun take any offence in it (sore throat, sick.. can't really speak at all for a whole day, so dying to voice out some opinion

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