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<blockquote data-quote="kokanChai" data-source="post: 1021745" data-attributes="member: 12757"><p>I've read through all your advices and here's some updated news. I was flirting with her all these while, (i knew that someone else is flirting with her as well)telling her that I love her all the while, and just seems to be ok with it and flirt with me as well. Recently she told me her pc got problem, so I went to her house to help her format her computer and reinstall window xp, since she didn't have all the driver cd for her pc, I cant format, just did another installation. Meanwhile, she went upstairs to do something(The computer is downstairs). Because I was so curious about the other guy who was also flirting with her, I went to C://Documents and Settings/+censored/My Documents/My Chat Logs/ . She was smart though, encrypting her chat log with Messenger Plus. So I went to C://Documents and Settings/+censored/My Documents/My Received Files/username@hotmail.com/ and there, all the chat logs are there, I uploaded few chat logs of her best friends and my 'competitor' into my FTP server. Then, I just went ahead and installed all the other stuff in her computer.</p><p></p><p>Then, we went to Times Square to watch movie with some other friends. I sat beside her and saw that my competitor sms-ed her and called her. Then I told her to tell him we were watching movie. She told me he is very annoying and irritating. Halfway through the movie, I got my courage and took you guys' advices. I took a deep breath and confessed my feelings to her once again and asked if we could be together. She didn't even have any reaction. She just told me that she told me before that she had a reason and she can't be with me. After that, I borrowed her phone to call my friend ( my phone no more credit ), I wasn't really familliar with her phone, and accidentaly went into her call logs, saw that she called my competitor quite often. Then I went to check her Friends and Family list via *128# and saw that I wasn't even in that list. I don't have the mood to read her inbox after that, haha </p><p></p><p>I was sad after that, the moment the movie was over, I went off with another friend and kept a distance between her and me, I was trying to avoid her. Soon she sms-ed me and told me that it's just that she doesn't want to get involved in another relationship as it wasn't the time.</p><p></p><p></p><p>When I reached home, i jumped to my laptop immediately and downloaded the chat logs from my FTP server. Read the chat logs between my competitor and her. Found out that she was also flirting with my competitor. I seriously can't believe it, I was far far behind compared to my competitor when I thought I was far in front. After reading the chat logs, I realized that she TOLD BOTH OF US that she doesn't want to get involved in a relationship and suprisingly, both of us had said that we will give her time as she needs to think.</p><p></p><p>The conclusion is, by invading her privacy, I found out that I was being treated like a fool all these while. She's just flirting with 2 guys, so she can have the options to CHOOSE the best. I also found out that for one week, I will be watching movie with her, few days after that, he will watch with her.</p><p></p><p>Can you guys tell me if I shouldn't have invaded her privacy by reading her chat logs and continue being a fool? Consider herself lucky I didn't set up a VPN on her computer so that I can gain access to her chat logs all the time.</p><p></p><p>Can you guys give me ur oppinion on this case?</p><p></p><p>Thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kokanChai, post: 1021745, member: 12757"] I've read through all your advices and here's some updated news. I was flirting with her all these while, (i knew that someone else is flirting with her as well)telling her that I love her all the while, and just seems to be ok with it and flirt with me as well. Recently she told me her pc got problem, so I went to her house to help her format her computer and reinstall window xp, since she didn't have all the driver cd for her pc, I cant format, just did another installation. Meanwhile, she went upstairs to do something(The computer is downstairs). Because I was so curious about the other guy who was also flirting with her, I went to C://Documents and Settings/+censored/My Documents/My Chat Logs/ . She was smart though, encrypting her chat log with Messenger Plus. So I went to C://Documents and Settings/+censored/My Documents/My Received Files/username@hotmail.com/ and there, all the chat logs are there, I uploaded few chat logs of her best friends and my 'competitor' into my FTP server. Then, I just went ahead and installed all the other stuff in her computer. Then, we went to Times Square to watch movie with some other friends. I sat beside her and saw that my competitor sms-ed her and called her. Then I told her to tell him we were watching movie. She told me he is very annoying and irritating. Halfway through the movie, I got my courage and took you guys' advices. I took a deep breath and confessed my feelings to her once again and asked if we could be together. She didn't even have any reaction. She just told me that she told me before that she had a reason and she can't be with me. After that, I borrowed her phone to call my friend ( my phone no more credit ), I wasn't really familliar with her phone, and accidentaly went into her call logs, saw that she called my competitor quite often. Then I went to check her Friends and Family list via *128# and saw that I wasn't even in that list. I don't have the mood to read her inbox after that, haha I was sad after that, the moment the movie was over, I went off with another friend and kept a distance between her and me, I was trying to avoid her. Soon she sms-ed me and told me that it's just that she doesn't want to get involved in another relationship as it wasn't the time. When I reached home, i jumped to my laptop immediately and downloaded the chat logs from my FTP server. Read the chat logs between my competitor and her. Found out that she was also flirting with my competitor. I seriously can't believe it, I was far far behind compared to my competitor when I thought I was far in front. After reading the chat logs, I realized that she TOLD BOTH OF US that she doesn't want to get involved in a relationship and suprisingly, both of us had said that we will give her time as she needs to think. The conclusion is, by invading her privacy, I found out that I was being treated like a fool all these while. She's just flirting with 2 guys, so she can have the options to CHOOSE the best. I also found out that for one week, I will be watching movie with her, few days after that, he will watch with her. Can you guys tell me if I shouldn't have invaded her privacy by reading her chat logs and continue being a fool? Consider herself lucky I didn't set up a VPN on her computer so that I can gain access to her chat logs all the time. Can you guys give me ur oppinion on this case? Thank you. [/QUOTE]
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