you need to learn how to understand a question....even if the question is not clear, understand the intent otherwise the question will always be unnecessary..
to make it super clear,
1. It's someone you like; and
2. Then you decide to court; and
3. Then you try, and
4. Finally, you fail (i.e. people just ignore you or don't like or in any meaning similar to that),
How? That is what do you do? Of course, answer to that may differ, but given the above choices, what will you do?
Just a simple poll question, dont make it complicated ok?