kyheng,
It's clear that your intentions are to flame people, rather than to be polite and friendly. You already started calling people childish, immature, etc. even before anyone bothered about those kind of things.
Since you started to call people names, the point here is no longer about reedoor and Ben's case. It's about you being rude and disrespectful. Nobody stepped on your tail (unless you are Ben himself, which I'm kind of suspicious about it) but you had to step on people's tail first. With you in the picture, it's not about "good condition" or "bad condition" anymore.
And since you always mentioned about "in the first place, .....", then I'll say that in the first place, you should've watched your language. Talk about respect? You don't even know how to respect people. What you did was to accuse reedoor of being a conman. Then you claim that he is talking like a small boy, that his head is on fire, ask him to keep his head cool and ask him to admit on the mistake that he did. After that, you call fritz a stupid bastard, small boy, very immatured and stupid brain. Later on, you want to talk about respect. How do you even hope to gain any respect when you are contradicting yourself?
Don't blame fritz for crossing your line. All he did was just type words. He didn't even stand in front of you while typing it. And because you yourself can't take it, blew up and used foul words, you blame fritz for being the cause of it. Aren't you man enough to withstand the verbal abuse? If you can't control yourself because of verbal abuse, it only shows how little control you have. I've friends who were being called mother fuckers, rapist, bastards, assholes, stupid fucks, etc etc etc and they didn't even retaliate. They just behaved normally. So don't go around trying to be the big one (you ARE trying even if you don't admit or claim it) and go blasting people around telling who is childish, who is a bastard, and etc etc etc. because when you do so, you're basically labelling yourself, not others.
Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you. In this case, you disrespected people, so people are disrespecting you.
I believe this thread will be locked soon.
reedoor,
If this thread isn't locked, do let us know the outcome. Best of luck and may God be with you. :)