Felixia Yeap

[[H] [K] [S]]

Houston, we have a problem here................

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

who is Houston bro? :hmmmm:

 

[mokomoko]

Houston, we have a problem here................

Houston: reference to the Apollo space missions launch base ran by NASA. This particular sentence was quoted during the Apollo 13 mission where the crew reported a fatal mechanical fault with the space craft.


ps: SF, in your case it would be that your plans could hit a snag till your proposed date middle this year. my deduction of the situation is that your gf would be heading somewhere, thus leaving you the opportunity to not have any cctvs or dogtag monitoring around so you can go out and make some friends of the opposite sex.
And yes, girls, as how all girls will be, will always be suspicious when their man goes out with other members of the fairer sex. Its an instinctual emotion as they can feel that the relationship can / maybe threatened. It goes the same for guys anyway.
Most importantly in a relationship is trust. If you both trust each other then the worry shouldnt be too much.

One must make it a point to know that they can have close friends to chill and hangout at anytime, away from their respective partners, regardless whether guy / girl.

If the girl can't accept that then shes just being too paranoid. If a guy cant accept that then they are just being to controlling. Paranoia and obsessive control destroys relationships.

 

[yeehau86]

who is Houston bro? :hmmmm:

Whitney Houston

 

[[H] [K] [S]]

Mokomoko - too much input for SF in your statement. It will take sometime for him to digest

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

mokomoko: :rofl.

You seem to have seen through me, my intentions & obstacles
Yes, you are right that she is leaving for somewhere which I find it much more suitable time for me to hang out with a few particular friends that I have been trying to find some time to spend with them. Is just cuz I really don't want her to have any wild thoughts or imaginations running in her mind and wouldn't wanna have unnecessary arguments with her. Just wanna make sure she is happy all the time and I know what I'm doing out there. Just some chats and drinks with female friends.

Is not that I was hoping that she will go off somewhere for long lar
At least I can avoid any heated arguments that may or might ruin our relationship.

Yes, regardless whether it is male/female both will be suspicious once awhile or having some wild imaginations running in their mind due to being afraid of losing their partner to another. Yes, totally agree the main key to a successful relationship is always 'Trust'.

In short, she worries about me and my safety most of the time. Like I'm going out with my ZTH friends, well she just said, "Just don't stay out too late at night" and if i go out too often with ZTH friends she will be worried. Not cuz she thinks my friends are bad. Just worried that I might race with my friends

Well, now she is quite fine with it. I told her I'm just going out for drinks la..

 

[mokomoko]

hahaha ok. Well my advice is to always be open with your partner.

But.

Only up to a certain extent. Too much information is sometimes disastrous. Somethings are better left unsaid.

mokomoko:

Well, now she is quite fine with it. I told her I'm just going out for drinks la..

Hahaha, Evolutionz and 5115 no show u best place to 'cha guat' yet ah?
Heard from them that in kepong the mechanics veli gud gud! Gib very good 'engine servis' wan.

 

[DewA_LavaU]

Houston: reference to the Apollo space missions launch base ran by NASA. This particular sentence was quoted during the Apollo 13 mission where the crew reported a fatal mechanical fault with the space craft.


ps: SF, in your case it would be that your plans could hit a snag till your proposed date middle this year. my deduction of the situation is that your gf would be heading somewhere, thus leaving you the opportunity to not have any cctvs or dogtag monitoring around so you can go out and make some friends of the opposite sex.
And yes, girls, as how all girls will be, will always be suspicious when their man goes out with other members of the fairer sex. Its an instinctual emotion as they can feel that the relationship can / maybe threatened. It goes the same for guys anyway.
Most importantly in a relationship is trust. If you both trust each other then the worry shouldnt be too much.

One must make it a point to know that they can have close friends to chill and hangout at anytime, away from their respective partners, regardless whether guy / girl.

If the girl can't accept that then shes just being too paranoid. If a guy cant accept that then they are just being to controlling. Paranoia and obsessive control destroys relationships.

aiyahhh the best partner/companion/gf is those gals who work with airlines trust me u gonna enjoy it hehehehehe

 

[PocketRocket]

aiyahhh the best partner/companion/gf is those gals who work with airlines trust me u gonna enjoy it hehehehehe

AMEN to that

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

mokomoko: Lolz! No wor...and I don't fancy go out serbis geh...I very loyal one

Yalo, that's why I don't want her to know lo. Certain things is best to do without telling her as long as it is not cheating on her lo...

Dewa_Lawau You intro some of your gf's friend to me lar bro lolz! I know you have adi found your love which is a pretty stewardess...intro some to me lolz!

 

[TitanRev]

Woh~~mokomoko = motomoto....the love guru...salute*

SF, your gf staying with you everyday?

DW, couldn't agree more.....Amen.....

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

TitanRev: Can consider as staying with me everyday, since she has adi finished her college studies and waiting for UK studies in July. But this few weeks she comes only on friday and go backs to her rented room on Sunday.

That's why a bit hard...

 

[JINEIL2EN]

Yo~~~angry me oh.....sorry loh.....

no lah... i dun dare la... u soooOOOo nice.. how dare i get mad ler...

WahAHAHHAHA I REMEMBER THAT! LOL
Ya lo.........we very kind must give looovveeee to many many women.



Dun lie jin.

I didn't lie to myself... at all...

TitanRev: Can consider as staying with me everyday, since she has adi finished her college studies and waiting for UK studies in July. But this few weeks she comes only on friday and go backs to her rented room on Sunday.

That's why a bit hard...

Oh... wow... got GF dy, but still yawning for FY everyday...??
i really really "PEI_SEE" u...
GF at side, almost everyday, thinkin & dreaming of other gal everyday... wat the fuck u r thinkin..?? u oredy mentally betrayed ur GF, & mentally abuse her everyday...
wat the shame on u bro... why u like that 1..???
we must treat gal in very very nice way ma... cos we r good guy ma.... haih...

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

Oh... wow... got GF dy, but still yawning for FY everyday...??
i really really "PEI_SEE" u...
GF at side, almost everyday, thinkin & dreaming of other gal everyday... wat the fuck u r thinkin..?? u oredy mentally betrayed ur GF, & mentally abuse her everyday...
wat the shame on u bro... why u like that 1..???
we must treat gal in very very nice way ma... cos we r good guy ma.... haih...

Lolz! JIN...sei zhai I didn't dream of FY when my GF is with me okay?
The dream that I dreamt wasn't related to ****** or even going out with FY alone leh...is about FY keep being taken away by other guys leh..in other words, my TT was interrupted by others leh...

my last dream was a long hair guy who took away FY when I'm having TT with FY and friends lolz!

I treat every girl very nice der leh...but My gf i treat extra nice geh...I got a good sifu like you JIN, surely I will not fail u

 

[TitanRev]

Wah~~not yet marry also every day stay with you...same room kah?

 

[mokomoko]

Wah~~not yet marry also every day stay with you...same room kah?

Not yet marry stay same room everyday see each other wake up go sleep is quite nice for awhile.....but prolonged it will do more harm than good for a relationship.

Trust me.

been there before. not healthy.

 

[Supra_Fanatics]

TitanRev: Not everyday la...normally she just study in my room and sleeps with my sisters in my sis room. Just sometimes afternoon have short nap only.

I thought you sleep with your gf everyday geh?

mokomoko: Not good meh? It makes me feel like we are husband and wife lolz!
Hmm...will take ur advise then...but I can't tell her hey, u dun come lar this week lolz!

If she wanna come over, can't really stop her lo...

 

[TitanRev]

SF, no...even we've been together for years...she don't live with me....we stay separately...I only see my gf 2 times a week or most 4 times/week.

what moko said is true. even before marriage also stay together after marriage also the same, you will feel bored and there's no fresh feeling....

 

[BLANk]

SF, no...even we've been together for years...she don't live with me....we stay separately...I only see my gf 2 times a week or most 4 times/week.

vry good example!!!

 

[mokomoko]

TitanRev: Not everyday la...normally she just study in my room and sleeps with my sisters in my sis room. Just sometimes afternoon have short nap only.

I thought you sleep with your gf everyday geh?

mokomoko: Not good meh? It makes me feel like we are husband and wife lolz!
Hmm...will take ur advise then...but I can't tell her hey, u dun come lar this week lolz!

If she wanna come over, can't really stop her lo...

Nope not good at all. soon u will feel like the relationship got nothing already if u continue like that. If u see each other everyday how to tell each other interesting stories cause you already know everything about each other.

Last time i eat, sleep, shit, play, work all together with my ex until i vomit blood. Then no more feeling. after 3.5 years then Kaboooooomm. Its an experience I treasure and it has made me learn a great lesson about relationships.

So be sure not to repeat it!