Thanks for comparing notes, psw. My feedback as per your points:
1. Agreed; slick changes but there were occasions when I forgot which gear I was in. I suspect that this problem was myself as I don't drive stick very often, so it is interesting that you mentioned this issue. Unfortunately, never driven an STi before so difficult for me to compare.
2. Did not face this problem; I never stalled the car when I had it. In comparison, the 370Z was a little more problematic for me. But like you said, this is something that can be resolved once an individual gets used to the biting point.
3. In terms of steering feel, you are correct when comparing against the Mk6 Golf GTI. Yes it is lighter, but sufficiently communicative in my opinion; I was always aware how much available grip I had when negotiating corners. I've just driven a Mk6 Golf R (review up soon) and the steering feel is definitely meatier.
4. Yes, engine is uninspiring. In truth, I feel the same way about the GTI as well as the R. That said, between the Golfs and the Megane, I will admit that the Megane is the most engaging. I also only managed sub 6 seconds zerotohundred times (although I'm admittedly 'slower' when driving stick).
Just a small insight to my thoughts having driven the Golf GTI, Megane RS250 and the Golf R: the best balanced hot-hatch (price/specs/functionality) in my opinion is the GTI.