wait 1st bro, ur gear shift sound like got gear grinding sound like "grok"in high rpm is it? if it is like that , i am very sure it is gear synchro's problem.... if pressure plate got problem, it wont even hold ur clutch since u r rev from low rpm till high rpm, i can only think of 2 situation for clutch pressure plate problems..
1.) if the clutch pressure plate's pin and bolts is not properly "hold" on ur flywheel, like my experience with my frens toyota gl, it tend to vibrate and jerking because the pressure plate not properly hold the clutch and cause uneven load and pressure distribution that causes vibration only...
2.) this problem more related to ur situation, when ur clutch plate or pressure plate are out of order (lining finished or pressure plate rosak no more pressure), clutch tend to loose, we all know if clutch loose we cant engage gear rite?
so i think there is possibility that the clutch set out of order also, new bearing does not help a second hand clutch to be new bro, for wear and tear parts, better use something u know it is really new or at least got guaranty... since we all don't wan pay double workmanship and buy new stuff again in short time rite? like now if after check it is really the clutch problem, u gonna pay for new set of clutch again and also workmanship.... i think the seller also no guaranty u the clutch for more then 3 months rite? coz from my experience buying so called recond parts sometimes depend on ur luck also...
i just hope my initial prediction (the gear's synchro) wont be the problem, if it is, from what ur statement told us, 2nd gear synchro is out and also 4th gear's synchro, the workmanship and $$ for the synchro gears can almost get u a new exedy 4 puck racing clutch dy..