My suggestion is just disable the boost controller or just turn it off if possible.
Why??? =
Spike means the boost will overshoot to 1.4 bar for a very short period of time( 2-3 secs) before coming back to normal boost (normal boost maybe 1.1-1.2 bar if i'm not mistaken) as from the factory setting.
You will not want to set the boost controller to 1.4 bar, as this only make your boost becomes constant at 1.4bar at all time and it's not healthy for the engine and the turbo itself + the fuel system is still stock + stock ECU.
REMEMBER: the factory setting only SPIKES to 1.4 bar, not sticking to 1.4 bar all the way
The easiest and best way for your solution is Just get your boost pattern re-set to factory setting to unleash the real potential of your e9 by disabling your boost controller.
Answering your question on gain setting, you have to do trial and error. you may start from the lowest gain, and try to increase it step by step.Find an open empty safe road, and try to push your car at high gear..(may be 3rd or 4th gear....and it's at your own risk too...)
You will see how fast the full boost is built up.. stop increasing the gain once you see the boost starts to overshoot above your earlier boost setting.
Huh..hope this clarifies.......
...............and please dont blow the engine